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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Bellina » August 28th, 2012, 11:31 pm

Wow. This is wonderful.
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Postby Sapphire » September 1st, 2012, 3:44 am

Yeah rhynn this is an amazing idea, you really are so thoughtful! :)
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Riv » September 1st, 2012, 8:31 pm

Rhynn, this topic is just the right thing. I would be more than glad to give everyone who needs a listening ear as well :) You can PM me right here or if you can't reach me here just send me an email at 'triinmic at gmail dot com'. Don't be shy - I may be young, but I always try and give objective advice, as much as possible. Venting helps a lot, so just vent as much as you can ;)
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Riverfirebolt » September 1st, 2012, 9:42 pm

You guys are amazing, it is things like this that make me love this site so much. Thanks.
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby bxccah » October 16th, 2012, 4:07 pm

well, i'm personally suffering from severe post potter depression, i've just finishing reading deathly hallows (for the tenth time) and i feel all lost :oops:
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Riv » October 16th, 2012, 4:10 pm

We totally know about the post-Potter depression, I think all of us suffer under it in some way or other. So grab your books and start discussing them in depth with other fans, or go to realistic classes right here on PFF, or just hang out with other people who share your thoughts and emotions about Potter. You'll always find someone who will listen to your story ;)
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Postby Hermione Leviosa » October 16th, 2012, 10:10 pm

I agree with Riv. :)
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Soleil » October 16th, 2012, 10:38 pm

Aw, that's how I felt at the end of each book. :lol: I felt completely lost. :P
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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby bxccah » October 18th, 2012, 5:14 pm

My girlfriend just broke up with me :( I'm sure most of you have been there, has anyone got any advice on how to cope? I've obviously been in breakups before but this was a pretty serious relationship :(

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Re: Need a listening ear? Something on your mind?

Postby Riv » October 18th, 2012, 6:37 pm

I'm so sorry, Bxccah :(

The only thing I can't really help with is break-ups. I don't know how to get through them myself. It does get better with time, so the only thing I can suggest is wait, and be patient. If it was pretty serious, it's even harder to move on, but eventually you must do that. No matter what. I remember that after one break-up I was so down, I couldn't do any school work, I walked around like a zombie - everything I said, every emotion I showed - it was all a pretense, a mask. Inside that mask I was screaming, crying, curling up in the corner and dying all over again. I don't know how I got through it, but at one point it seemed pointless even to me. So I, step by step, started emerging from that zombie-mode. And now I am happier than ever because I found a person who is much better for me and to me than that other person ever was.

So, as I said, the only thing I can really say is: time heals all wounds. Don't try to erase that person from your heart or brain, it will only hurt yourself further, but instead learn to cope without that person. She'll still have a spot in your heart, but that spot will get smaller and smaller with time, making space for new people, new experiences.

I know this might not make sense right now or you simply won't acknowledge the truth of what I'm saying, but remember these words. I've gone through it. I know what I'm talking about. And since you've gone through break-ups before, you know that at least something in my words is true.

I hope you will soon feel better again. In the meantime, though, cry yourself out, scream if you need to, watch sad movies with lots of ice cream, but don't think that you weren't good enough (she didn't know what she was losing! *finger snap*), that you will never get over it and it's better if you didn't exist (I know many people, including myself have thought these thoughts. Those are NOT good thoughts). You WILL get through this, in time. We are here for you, honey. If you need a place to vent or scream (R-rated, of course, on-forum :D), just come here. These wonderful people here have helped me through some rough patches and will be glad to help you as well. You can ALWAYS count on us being there for you.

And you can PM me if you feel the need to talk more privately. I might not answer right away (probably because I'm sleeping or I actually have something important to do IRL), but I WILL answer the next day. I promise you that.

I hope this helped in some way and that you will feel better soon again. =) ♥
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